Are you in a proper relationship?

tonight, Aunty May brings you, Are You In A Proper Relationship?

Are you in a proper relationship?

To begin, there is never a proper relationship. A proper relationship cannot be defined, because no one will ever have a proper relationship. Something will always go wrong. Always. There will always be one thing or another. But what makes a relationship successful, is to actually overcome the problem.

So, how can you tell if your relationship is going wrong…

Ok, if you tell me your boy or girl doesn’t love you as much. That is bullshit!! Relationship is a cycle. It is a big circle!

Phase 1, i want to know you.

You both get to know one another. And if one of you have feelings, obviously he/she will take alot of the time off and pay attention to you. So you will feel special and loved.

Phase 2, chick love.

When it is successful, you both are hitting cloud nine. You both spends CRAZY AMOUNT OF TIME TOGETHER!!! no more friends, no more family, no nothing. You both will spend 24 hours together. If there’s a 25th hr, even better. So the Chick love phase, is THE phase.

Phase 3, err,where are you?

Things deteriorates! nothing stays the same forever. Things change. He/She will realise that you both spend too much time, and its time to catch up with reality! its time to go back and mingle with friends. Its time to play sports, shopping, movies… So this is when girls usually complaints that she is lonely, not feeling it, and ARGUEMENT ARRIVES

Phase 4, WTF?!?!?!

Arguements are the best things in relationship. This is when you understand whats wrong. and PLS PLS PLS dun leave it hanging. NEVER leave it hanging in the air. Solve it. So this would be better. You would understand the person better and with that, your relationship matures.

So within this 4 phases of relationship, this can go wrong and you would question yourself, is this the way it should be.

Signs of IMPROPER RELATIONSHIPS.

The boyfriend hits you. NOW!!!! if the boy is willing to hit you, think twice lady. Sometimes he is soo angry that he could do anything,i.e hit you? NOO!!! Where is your pride?? TO BE HIT?!?!?!

Jealousy is normal! But being too much is not very healthy. For example, having to stop someone from being friends or not allowing this or that? or also a true example, a girl holding a baby, the bf goes crazy!!!!

Back to jealousy, it is a problem that will always occur. in any situation, anyone can get jealous. however, assurance and trust!! the two keys!! DUN CHEAT LA, COME ON!!!! how to trust!! but building trust and having to reassure, then, it should be fine. Not as easy as saying, but walking the walk is pretty tough!

Missing without knowing where each other are. That is crazy too!!!! The feeling of being over poccessive is bad, but knowing where each other whereabouts is not wrong. It show you care. But DO NOT GO MISSING!!! if calling each other every second? that is bad, but at random times, it might be annoying, but don’t be too long.. 2-3 minutes? thats good enough.

These are just few things you need to look out for.. but it depends to one person or another. Different people tackle things differently, but please.. both are humans with emotions. So treat each other with respect

~ by taka on August 24, 2009.